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PostSubject: Sad news about my mother   Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:07 pm

HELLO ALL PLAYERS,
I HAD FAMILY EMERGENCY LAST WEEKEND AGAIN,,,, MY BRO/SIS IN LAW CALLED 911 AND TOOK MY MOTHER TO THE HOSPITAL(Long story)... THEY CPR ON MY MOTHER THREE TIMES, TUBES AND IV/OTHER MEDS BAG ON HER, AND ALSO TESTS/LABS & MRI TESTS TWICE.... LAST MONDAY ABOUT 1PM, I CALLED HOSPITAL AND TALKED WITH SOCIAL WORKER FOR MY MOTHER, AND HER WISHES ( NO MORE CPR AFTER 3 TIMES, NO LIFE SUPPORT, TUBES LIKE THIS) SOCIAL WORKER LADY AND I TALKED ON PHONE ABOUT POA AND SHE LISTEN MY RIGHTS/VOICES AND MY FEELINGS THEN LAST LIKE AS GAVE ME SOME ADVICES/SUPPORT/REFERRING ME ABOUT GRIEF SPECIALIST ETC... IT WAS NICE CONVERSATIONS BETWEEN ME AND SOCIAL WORKER LADY FROM HOSPITAL)THAT I HAD HARDER TIMES WITH MY EMOTIONS, CRYINGS, AND GRIEF BECAUSE I CLOSER LOVE MY MOTHER... SHE SAID SHE WILL TALK WITH MEDICAL TEAM LAST MONDAY LATE AFTERNOON OR TUESDAY MORNING. FINALLY THEY TOLD MY BROTHER IT IS APPROVED SO ALREADY SIGNED FOR DNR AND UNPLUG ALL THE TUBES AND MACHINES OUT.
I WATCHED VIDEO LIVE TO WATCH MY MOTHER DYING LAST TUESDAY ALL DAY TO END....
IT IS HARDER FOR ME WITH MY EMOTIONS, GRIEF, AND CRIES ETC....

*****SAD NEWS ::::: MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY LAST TUESDAY NIGHT AT 5:40PM JUNE 13, 2017*****



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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:27 pm

im so sorry gf about your mother hun. no more  
sorrow and pain gf..




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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:30 pm

I am so sorry PL,the loss of your mother is tough.....She had her wishes and you all honored them...Still a difficult predicament to be in...

Speaking for myself however i wouldn't want to watch the death of my mother over and over...Once would be enough for me i'd rather stick to the good memories.....

Stay Strong PL,the LORD has called her home....No more pain....

Grief is a tough emotion to deal with...I pray the LORD gives you strength...

GOD BLESS

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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Thu Jun 15, 2017 9:36 pm

Dear Liz
Losing a mother is one of most stressful things that will ever happen in your entire life. She gave you life.
And now she is gone. There is a very special bond between a child and mother, so very different that what you have with your father.

Liz, my father passed away 45 years ago, three short years later I lost my mother. Growing up I always
wanted to be just like her. She was beautiful, she was smart and the best mother any girl could ever want to have. My mom was my idol.

This past March I lost my one and only sibling. My sister who had been in cancer remission for the past
12 years, died of lung cancer. My sister was a chemical engineer (another smart lady), she was my best
friend, she was my partner in the bakery, she was my big sister and above all, she was my hero. She
had fourteen surgeries due to her Melanoma cancer on her leg.

I am now the oldest in the family, and its a very lonely place to be.

Liz, please know I understand the pain you are in right now. I have been there for years.
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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Thu Jun 15, 2017 11:03 pm

There are very few of us at FC who have not lost a parent, as many of us ourselves are approaching our twilight years. Susan & I have lost both our grandparents, mothers & fathers and a sibling, and it never is easy to deal with. At first it is overwhelming and all other thoughts are non-existent. And that is OK. That is normal. Just know that as much as you loved her, she loved you more. Go on with your life as before because she would not have wanted her passing to inhibit you from sharing your love with your family & friends. Cherish who she was and what she meant to you. As it is said... "this too shall pass".
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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Fri Jun 16, 2017 11:35 pm

DeepestSympathies,Hon, You and yours are in my Prayers.   Stay Strong....Love,Catt

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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Sat Jun 17, 2017 11:46 am

Prayers for you and the family love you

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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Sat Jun 17, 2017 6:20 pm

So sorry to hear about your news....

You need to stay strong for your mum you know she will always be
looking over you from the other side.
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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Sat Jun 17, 2017 6:31 pm

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to watch your mom pass away, I had to in 2008. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all your family. May God's love and peace surround in His arms.
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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Sun Jun 18, 2017 4:40 pm

"Gather well your memories,
store them against the morrow
When the day is dark and the song is gone
and a vision you would borrow
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... Anon
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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Wed Jun 21, 2017 9:32 am

so sorry to hear of your loss thoughts and prayers with you and your family

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PostSubject: Re: Sad news about my mother   Wed Jun 21, 2017 1:31 pm

I was with my mum the day she died but I wasn't there at the end . We only get one mum and almost 3 years on and I miss her everyday.

My deepest sympathy from one lizard to another Sad me
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